Writing helps. I have done it during the last months. This is therapeutic. He and I do not know what to do to bring someone back. Howard writes to things. I write to someone who does not exist anymore. And believe me when I say that you receive unexpected answers. And this is because the most of the times, the answers are in us but we do not want to listen to them. When we finally do it, it is not easy. Time is needed to assimilate. Time is needed to put everything in order. Time is needed to clear up the mind (and heart). Time is needed to take a decision and go forward. Time will say with if it was the right resolution or not.
From Love, Time and Death... I pick the Time.