It´s a matter of priorities

It seems today that if you are not married or have children at certain age, there is something wrong with you. Mainly, the lighter thing that you will hear is that you are egoistic.

But sorry, is not more egoistic to be married or have children for not being alone? is it not more egoistic to marry just because if your partner dies u will receive something from the State? is it not more egoistic to decide to have children and that your decision impact in the life of your workmates for example?

Sorry again, but I think that all said previously is much more egoistic than not been married or not have children just because:

1) It´s not your priority, or
2) it´s just because you do not want to

Not everybody has received the same education. Not everybody has had the same kind of life. Not everybody has to have the same aspiration. Sorry but not. And just because I do not want the same as you want, it does not mean that I am egoistic.

I´m fed up with all these topics. I am 35 years old. I am not married. I do not have children (and I don't miss it because I do not know the feeling of having them). I do not care to be alone now or in the future. I have the life that I want and I will not change it just because the society thinks that I am egoistic or I am weirdo. Sorry but not. I decide what I do and how I do.

Just because I do not have children, it does not mean that I cannot be tired and/or I do not have the right to complain.

Yes, there are some days that I am not tired... I am mega tired. I wake up a little bit after 5:00 in the morning. After all day working, I am not at home before 19:00-19:30. When I arrive home, I make some other things (including continue working the most of the latest days) and many many things that you do not do because you have your wife/husband who helps.

Just because I am not according to the society standards, it does not mean that I am not complete person.

Honestly, I think that I am "the same or even more complete" that many of you who are married and/or have children. I do not have to pretend. I do whatever I wish without giving any explanation to anyone. And this is what I want to and what I will continue doing.

If any day I change my mind, it will be because of me and not because of you or the society where we live.

It is OK for me the life that u have chosen... so, respect and not judge the people who has a life completely different to yours.