From time to time is good to make a pausa and take time for yourself.

You will re-define you as soon as you realize who you are and who you wanna be; as soon as you notice what you want and what u´re willing to compromise to get it; as soon as you are able to accept your errors and forgive yourself.

Only then, you will be who you yearn for;  you will get what you wish; and you will feel good and happy with yourself.